With my old approach, I am losing the vision of a path to solve the tasks of life.  The only path to continue seems to be getting whittled down to care taking. This is a tough change.  Corralling the help of others has never been an enjoyable task of mine, nor is it something that I am good at.  I would so much rather just do it. That is the old way that I can’t seem to let go of.  It has been made clear to me lately, just how much I think with my hands and feet.  It’s hard to problem solve by staring at something.  Mary is an awesome wife and teammate.  Sometimes, I personally worry that I will wear her out.